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Doubting The Doubts 🌸

“Have you ever thought of trying this colour? I think it would look good on you” “Why would you think that thing would look good on you? It sucks.” Or “What do you do, do you plan to explore further?” “What do you do, don't you think there are plenty of other things that could have been accomplished this whole time?” It's quite easy to recognise that there's a huge difference in both of these sentences in each example, right?  Well. The mind that can differentiate and understand the tone, and the meaning of the sentence just by reading, often fails to understand while hearing the same thing from someone.(fails in the sense - of always being unable to understand the true intention of a particular person.) yes, I have the same kind of mind and I believe many of us do. Yeah, I mean sometimes, I just cannot discern the intention of the person, which causes me to doubt myself (self-doubt) and constantly overthink. It creates a very large kind of chaos in my mind, which I know is...
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Fiction Talks : Introduction

The human mind is the most complicated one. Scientifically we are proven as a 'social creature' which is true, we do live in a society. Science has stated that human ‘prefers' to live socially. And yet we all know what creature feels lonely the most ;)  Jokes aside, we must understand that feeling lonely is just a basic part of human nature. There’s nothing wrong with it. As Swami Vivekananda says, ‘You must talk to yourself at least once a day, otherwise, you will miss the chance to meet the brilliant person of your life!’ If you ask me, watching shows/movies, and reading a book are the things I like to do after spending time alone. I believe that's the best way to give your unstoppable thoughts a break and try and comprehend new things in a fun way! Whether it can be a Movie, Web Series, Anime Series and much more. We go into the fictional world, live in the story, and get emotionally attached to the characters. These all are my favourite parts about watching a show. ...

To The Bad Days of Life ❤️

Having a life without getting your heart broken at the end of the day is like having a key without having notches on it. I mean that unevenness is necessary to get the thing done. It is what is meant to be, isn't it? Similarly, the worst days that happen are the most important ones. But we don't necessarily acknowledge that right? We just curse the whole situation, wish that it shouldn't have happened, and move on.   I had this one bad day or the hardest I ever experienced, cried for hours and ended up feeling like a total loser. I was feeling alone, There was nothing else going on in my mind, just all the negative things that were ever said to me, all the embarrassing moments I felt and the loop was just going on. I tried to recall some memories but it just didn't work at all. I couldn't stop crying, in that moment I just wanted to stop myself from crying and suddenly I remembered a thing that my best friend told me when I had a previous breakdown. She said :  when...

A Dream About the Faithfulness💗

Growing up in Kolhapur thankfully made me a huge fan of festivals and who isn't!? I mean Indian Festivals themselves are huge celebrations itself. But I must say the amount of joy and enthusiasm we see among Kolhapurkars during the festive season is on another level. I just love to see the devotion of people towards Lord Ganesha. Especially for a 21-ft large Mahaganapati. I, too, feel an immense amount of positivity just by looking at the pictures of that idol. I love to observe people express their gratitude towards God in various ways, like Prayers with no superstitious beliefs behind them.  To capture the emotions, I decided to go with my brother who was going to take photos of a 21ft long idol of Ganesha. I had always been scared of such large statues/idols. But this time I decided to go and have a look at it. The beautiful deity felt even more positive in person! I could not let my eyes off it. I remembered all the memories we had with this particular place. I remembered seein...

Just Say it 🌻

               So I did this "ask me a  question" thing on Instagram few days back. Instead asking me a question, I asked my friends what was the most random compliment/thing they got from people. Some of them shared their experiences, but the majority of people didn't respond (maybe they had not gotten my question right or  they didn't want to share).                   I like getting to know the new people. When I do interact I simply notice their good things and I always try to tell them what I really like about them. When I do this many of the people say like why you always appreciate, but that's my nature and I don't really find it awful at all. But being honest about our opinion is not always good. By saying that I mean opinions shall be expressed within a proper respect and the timing is the second most important thing.                 Thankfu...

The Porch 🍁

 I got a chance to live in goa with my family a few months back. The place we lived in was a bungalow, but we were staying on the first floor so it was like living in a flat type of experience for us. There wasn't any gallery or porch in that room. We spent there the whole month of April. We all would agree that The midsummer rains are always special. Till now, I had experienced every midsummer rain on the porch of my home. But it was different this time. I couldn't experience the first rain as there wasn't any porch and I had to see the rain through the window only! I was so saddened by the fact that I missed the joy of enjoying the first rain. So many thoughts surrounded my head that day. A small place in our house, which we call the porch, doesn't feel any special, does it? But once we get to stay in the building or an apartment we get to know the value of that place. No matter what size the area is. Porch plays an essential part in completing the HOME! My grandmothe...

Cowardice is Not an Option 🌻

  Being a student for nearly 13years, I have learnt that ‘Exams’ are meant to be tough... We all know that exams are necessary to conclude what we've been learning all this way, but exams similarly make an impact on our personalities as well. The tougher the exam, the stronger we become. Even though we fail, we have the belief that at least we accepted the Tough challenge and fought for it and that belief becomes our weapon to prove ourselves. The more hard work we do, the more we tend to accept difficult challenges.  We all hated exams in our school days but as we grow up, our approach towards exams changes and we become serious enough for achieving our goals. Although having less confidence makes a huge impact on what we tend to do. What makes it more harmful is neglecting the ‘main problem’ and searching for a better (so-called) option. Now, this becomes way more troublesome when the ‘student’ is in the centre here. I guess choosing the simple way does the same thing as run...